When things in life don’t go as planned, why do we allow ourselves to harp on what is NOT instead of trying to figure out what can be? When you focus your energy on the negative you get negative results. Stop wasting time complaining about how bad things are or what someone did and come up with a solution. The moment you turn on that switch in your brain to think differently about problems the less stress you will have in your life. We make our lives stressful not the events